Sunday, March 2, 2014

Parents & Technology.

It is generally assumed that kids are too busy with their hand-phones and iPads to communicate with their parents. In movies and TV shows, we always see young children and snobby teens ignoring their parents while tapping away on their gadgets. Kids who constantly use their phones are seen as rude and spoiled. While I do agree with the fact that our generation relies highly on technology to pass our time, there is another similar situation which isn't given nearly as much attention. I encountered something weird the other day which made me want to write this post.

A mother and her daughter were sitting at the table beside me in a restaurant. The little girl looked to be around 6 years old. She was talking very enthusiastically but the mother was just blatantly ignoring her while using her Blackberry. She barely said five words to the girl throughout the whole meal. It was painful to watch. Since then I've been noticing this situation more, I guess it happens a lot but I never thought about it.

I think it's really sad that kids these days have to compete with technology for their parents' attention.

I'm not ignoring the fact the parents may actually be working through their phones, answering emails etc. But the point is that at least when sitting in a restaurant with your child, you should put it away, or at least tell them to wait a second instead of letting them blabber on pointlessly. If a child grows up in an environment where he/she feel like they're not being heard, they'll grow up feeling like their thoughts are not important. And this in turn will lessen their self-esteem.

I'm not a parent so I can't empathise with the situation, all I can do is comment on what I feel is wrong. Technology can be very distracting and it IS an essential part of our lives, but taking time out to listen to your kids is just as important.

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Would love to hear your views on this :)

Sunday, February 2, 2014

PurpleMist's Life Update #3

It has been over a year since my last life update. Back then I was just a few months into my degree course and looking forward to 2013. I actually followed through with my plan to do the 2013 memory jar project. However, instead of collecting memories in a jar, I used a box, here's a photo I took after a few months of 2013 (different coloured papers for different months). I switched to writing down memories as notes on my phone instead to save time and because I'm lazy.

Now I'm half way through university and currently having a 2 week holiday after completing the third semester. So happy to get this break so I can waste time and be lazy because the exams were super stressful.  During exam time I was so busy and tired and had so much shit to do, but now I'm so free I just walk around the house feeling out of place because there's literally NOTHING to do and I'm not used to this and I'm SO BORED. I don't have a car right now so I'm stuck at home a lot. So this is probably why I'm back on blogger (finally). I'm even willing to try out twitter just so I have more pointless stuff to do on the internet.



2013 was a pretty good year overall. A lot of things changed and I miss a lot of people (as always). Most importantly, I had an awesome summer back in my hometown when I attended my cousin's wedding. Dressing up is always fun :) On the right is a photo of my favourite  hairdo from one of the main wedding events, a waterfall braid!

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I finished watching One Tree Hill and it's the first (drama based) TV show that actually taught me about life, family and love. And the finale was super inspiring, the whole story wrapped up very nicely. I'm glad I actually learned so much just by sitting down and staring at my laptop screen. Highly recommended show!
It’s the oldest story in the world. One day you’re 17 and planning for someday. And then quietly and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And then someday is yesterday. And this is your life. -Nathan Scott
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I also did some baking:


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Hope you guys are having a great 2014 so far and I wish you the best of luck for the rest of the year ♥

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Blogging Tips: Writing good blog posts.

Check out the previous post: Blogging Tips: How to get more followers.
This post is more about how to KEEP those followers.
I follow over a hundred blogs and I've been reading and keeping up with blogs for the last 2-3 years. So these tips are from a reader's perspective, there are certain things in blog posts which I like so here's a list of things which make readers want to read blog posts.

Paragraphing --- I often come across posts which are so difficult to read and keep up with because there's no paragraphing at all. This makes me just skim over the post, not really reading anything, or giving up on reading the blog post altogether because I can't focus with so many words. So it's super important to write in paragraphs, so that your readers don't get frustrated while reading your blog posts.

Length of post --- Don't drag the post with meaningless content, but also don't make it too short. I personally find it easier to read posts which include lists or subheadings, it's an effective way to maintain the reader's attention.

Title --- The title of your post should tell the reader exactly what to expect, a plus would be to have some attention grabbing titles. But don't use a title that is irrelevant to the content just to get more people to click on your post.

Proof-read --- Read through the post before you publish it. I cringe everytime I find multiple spelling mistakes in one post and it makes me think... if the blogger doesn't care enough to proof-read, why should I care to read their post?

Pictures --- Include images in your posts along with the text, it keeps the readers from getting bored. This is something I'm struggling with, since I want to stop simply copying images from google images and using them on here in case I violate any copyright laws.

Content --- Last but definitely not least, is the actual content. It's your blog, write whatever you want. But if you want other people to read it too, then make it interesting.

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I also did a post on: 3 Things I Don't Like About Your Blog.
Once again, I'm no expert, this tips are just from my observation of blogs. Please comment below with any more ideas, I could use them!

P.S. I really applaud bloggers who still post regularly and don't ditch their blog every few months. I struggle with this a lot, clearly.

Monday, December 16, 2013

External Forces (The Laws of Motion #1) by Deborah Rix


A fast-paced, high-stakes adventure through a future world where evolution is the new religion and genetic deviations are not tolerated. When 16-year-old Jess begins to show signs of deviance she enlists in the Special Forces, with her best friend Jay, in a desperate bid to evade detection by the Devotees. Jess is good with data, not so good with a knife. So when the handsome and secretive Sergeant Matt Anderson selects her for his Black Ops squad, Jess is determined to figure out why.

As her deviance continues to change her, Jess is forced to decide who to trust with her deadly secret. Jess needs to know what’s really out there, in the Deviant wasteland over the border, if she has any hope of making it to her 17th birthday. Because if the enemy doesn’t kill her first, the army probably will.
Read the full blurb here.


"TREASON. BETRAYAL. HEARTBREAK. A lot can happen to a girl between her first kiss and her first kill" ---- that sure got my attention! This single sentence was honestly the main reason I decided to read this book :P

On the whole, I really enjoyed this novel. Being someone who doesn't read much science fiction, it was a welcome change for me. The author created an intriguing version of the future where there is all kinds of new technology and evolution is seen as a religion. After completing the book, my first thought was about how great this story would be for a movie. I would love watch all the action that happens in the Special Forces and see the deviant mutations visually. Yes, books are far better than movies but I really think a movie with this plot line would be awesome.

The thing I really liked about this storyline was that even though the world in this book was very different from what we live in today, it still felt realistic. The author did a great job of creating a dystopian world and the problems faced by the characters were very brutal, I felt myself fearing for them and silently urging them on.

I liked how the characters were all so unique with their own little quirks. The character development for the protagonist, Jess, that took place as the story continued was great and really made me empathise with her. What made the characters so real was the dialogue and the way each of them spoke. The dialogues didn't sound scripted at all and this was probably my favourite part. The conversations flowed easily, everything just felt so real and I could imagine it all playing out in my head.

The only downer was that I felt like there was something missing at the end. It ended so abruptly and the last scene (not giving away any spoilers) really broke my heart. But luckily this is a trilogy, so I can be assured that the story will continue in the second book of the series.

I'm looking forward to reading the next two books of The Laws of Motion trilogy!

Friday, November 15, 2013

10 Awesome TV Shows!

File:Sherlock titlecard.jpg 1. Sherlock
Recently started watching and love it! I'm still catching up with the episodes (so please no spoilers :P). I've had this series with me for a long long time, but resisted watching because.. let's face it, I watch way too many shows already. So glad I finally watched it. Definitely the wittiest show on this list! 


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 2. Gossip Girl
Before I started watching this show, I kind of used to look down on it. I assumed it was all just stereotypical highschool/ teen drama, which it was, but I found there was so much more to it. Even the ending was satisfying, since we actually find out who gossip girl is.
 

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3. The Big Bang Theory
Feels like I've been watching this show for years, and it's good to see the characters change and grow. A great comedy to balance out all the drama-centred shows that I watch.


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4. New Girl
I've watched the first two seasons multiple times, I just don't get sick of it! Love the characters and the different stories in every episode, so funny. It's such a great show, though I  still need to catch up on season 3! 


http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/6/67/The_O.C_Intro.jpg5. The OC
I had no idea what to expect when I started watching this show, but I ended up getting hooked from the first episode. Its another high school show but doesn't focus much on the school part, instead its more about growing up and finding yourself. Also, I love Summer and Seth.


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6. The Vampire Diaries
Just when I think this show is getting dull, there's a huge plot twist and I'm back to loving it. Love all the charaters and the back stories and the consistently good plot. Also, the spin off series, The Originals, is great too!


File:One Tree Hill original opening credits.jpg7. One Tree Hill
It has 9 seasons in total, and I'm still on season 5, so far its pretty good. Sometimes I love it and sometimes it drags, but its mostly just a great drama series with realistic storylines. Much better than shows like 90210, which are so stereotypical and repetitive. 

8. Pretty Little Liars
This show has a little bit of everything: romance, suspense, horror, mystery. But it's mainly mystery and keeps us on edge about what terrible thing is going to happen next.
Definitely worth watching!

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9. Friends
My favourite show! I can literally watch Friends everyday and not get bored of it. Haven't come across a show as original and funny and heartwarming as this one. I was so sad it ended on season 10. But then I started watching it all over again :D



10. Suggestions? Let me know what other show(s) you think should be on this list! 

Friday, September 27, 2013

Review: Coaster by Lorena Bathey

18086329 Honestly, the reason this book caught my interest was because of the cover. I know I know, we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover and whatnot, but sometimes a cover just catches your eye and makes you want to read the book before even knowing what it's about. I absolutely love simple yet eye-catching covers. So that is what sparked my interest and then after reading the blurb, I definitely wanted to read it.


When a bomb explodes at an amusement park eight people are killed. This tragedy and loss will change the lives of those who loved and lost them. What happens when disaster touches someone's life? Will it inspire them? Destroy them? Or change them? A character study of grief, loss, and finding your way through tragedy, follow the survivors as they work to move forward when their life is abruptly shattered.


This book has a little bit of everything: suspense, mystery, crime and a very realistic and charming romance (my favourite part!). It starts off through the villain's point of view and the reader gets a glimpse into how the villain's mind works. By the end of the first chapter there's a lot of anticipation because we know something horrible is going to happen.

The thing I liked about this novel is that it was very direct. There were no dull moments, every single thing led the story forward. Often books are full of back-stories and unnecessary details which drag the story but this book is very fast paced. The characters are all so real and I got attached to them quickly, despite knowing some horrible stuff is going to happen to them soon. I really enjoyed how each character was introduced into the story and they all had something unique about them which made them memorable.

This book kept me on the edge with the suspense and also made me teary with all the emotional trauma that came after the tragedy. The ending was very satisfying and had me smiling. It was a very realistic story and an easy-read because it's pretty short. I would definitely recommend this novel for people who like to read thrillers and crime stories!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Blogging Tips: How to get more followers.

I'm no expert blogger, but I thought I would share the little that I do know about blogging. So I'm writing a few posts on blogging tips, this first one is about how to get more followers. Hitting 200+ followers has not been easy. Some bloggers get followers easily and others struggle a lot. It actually took me two years to get to 200!

Google Friend Connect. 
On Blogger, most people follow your blog through GFC. So make sure you have a GFC widget on your blog and that it is easily accessible. Place it somewhere on your sidebar where it will be easy to spot so people don't have to scroll and search too much to find out how to follow your blog. I often don't follow blogs because I can't be bothered to look for the GFC widget. Sometimes, they don't have one in the first place, and I try not to follow through email because it can clutter my inbox. So having a GFC widget is a must.

Keep your blog open to public.
This way, more people will have access to it. It's very tedious when we have to sign in to our Google accounts just to view a blog. So if you don't have any particular reason to keep your blog private or only open to invited readers, just keep it public so you can gain more followers. People might even find your blog while browsing around the internet, and if it has what they're looking for, they might follow you.

Bloglovin'.
I recently claimed my blog on Bloglovin'. It's a very useful site for bloggers and for people who like to read blogs. It's a great platform for exploring new blogs so who knows, someone might stumble upon yours and decide to follow it.

Social networking sites.
You can share your new posts on Facebook or Twitter etc., so your friends will know about your blog and if they're interested, they will follow you. You can even make a page on Facebook for your blog where you can share your posts so people will be up to date with your posts.

Blog-walking.
This is probably the most important tip. Visit other blogs, follow them if you like the content, comment on their posts and request for them to check out your blog.
Don't just go for the 'follow for follow' thing because there's no point in having a high number of followers if those people are not actually interested in reading your content or commenting on your posts.
Blog-walking is all about finding blogs that interest you and making connections with the bloggers.

Write good content so you can keep those followers.
More on this on my next blogger tips post!

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I hope this helped :)
If you have any more tips on gaining followers, please share them in the comments!
Also, let me know if you want me to give blogger tips on anything.